Friday, October 22, 2010

Sun sun Didi tere liye ek blog likha hai

Didi ya anek kya hota hai, my Didi replies anek jaise tumhara weight, ek Tushky, ek aur Tushky ek ek kar kayeen anek Tushkyan ka wight milkar tumhara weight. My Didi, I have known her since the day I have known myself. She is not a part of my life but my life. My mother always said there is no relationship like 2 sister's relationship. Yes quite agree, she topped in Maths & Physics and I failed miserably in them. She hardly speaks I hardly keep quite. As a child she was a Shona may (golden girl) I was someone from whom gold is extracted (Soil). Well she also never cried while going to school, my crying even gave my father, who otherwise knows no anger, also fit of rage. Once Baba threw my bag in the garden and my new plastic tiffin carrier on the road, why? Khaboni ki Jaboni (neither will I eat neither will I go to school). Our differences were just not limited to childhood habits even as adults our differences are quite stark. When acne and pimples were busy making my face resemble Indian roads her skin showed signs of the country where she is currently settled, Sweden, glowing smooth a skin which could have launched many popular soaps. Then ofcourse how can I forget the only regret of my life. I could never sing the song, 'sun sun didi tere liye ek rishta aya hai', because she got her own rishta. In other words she had a 'Love Marriage'. A fact which my Baba could not get over for 2 weeks, he always thought Gold Medal in Physics life for Didi. Love was reserved for the black sheep of the family, that is me. But as you, my readers, know how lucky I have been in Love. Anyways touchy topic lets not go there. Whereas I can be brand ambassador for Indian television, why? Because as an ardent fan of Indian Television I have viewed its first serial Buniyad to the latest Baat Humari Pakki Hai. But my Didi will be brand ambassador for M.L. Khanna quick Mathematics. I remember as a child and even now she is fond of Gulab Jamun as for me I am fond of sweets doesn't matter gulab ho ya lotus jamun. Irrespective of all our differences we are sisters. We love each other, I know she will comment by saying is this about your rakhi sister but still she cannot deny our love for each other. Oh before I forget, how Baba was worried about her when she got married. His only worry was what if she is hungry she will not say anyone anything and keep quite and will suffer so every now and then he made our cousins make trip to her in laws house to check if she was hungry. Right at that moment I innocently asked, 'Baba will you ever be worried about me this way.' He looked at me from head to toe and said, 'Babau I need not worry about you, those people to whose family you will get married to they will worry by the amount of biscuits and sweets they have to provide you'. Thus I kept quiet, but was proud that atleast my father will not be worried about me. so thats about me and my Didi. Always wanted to share how special our relationship is. My Didi My Maa.

Coming up next, whoever thinks two different people can never have a successful married life, especially for them. Jaat Yamla pagla Deewana says ami tomake bhalobashi in Rabeendra Sangeet style. Keep watching this space for sansani phaila dene wali iss prem kahani ke liye.

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